How do you know that the person whom you are dating is the right one? How can you ever know that he/she is the person worth taking all the risks for? How will you know that this is the best that happened to you and nothing better than this awaits you in future? How can you know you have met that ‘’Soulmate”? And this “How” is a million dollar question.
Author C. JOYBELL has an opinion about it which I completely agree, she says
“How do you know if something is real? That’s easy. Does it change you? Does it form you? Does it give you wings? Does it give you roots? Does it make you look back at a month ago and say, “I am a whole different person right now”? If yes, then it’s real. The evidence of truth and reality, lies in how much something can touch you, can change you, even if it’s from very far away. Distance is only the evidence of what can be surpassed.”
If he/she makes you want to be a better person everyday than what you were the day before then you have a connection. In love, you will have a completely different feeling which you have never felt with anybody else before. There will a feeling of instant connection and familiarity. Your relationship evolves naturally, with no tension and you two can easily solve any conflict or argument by an authentic discussion. The person becomes your best friend and you will feel that incredible happiness to have that person in your life. They will make you stronger and you would want to give your strength to them as well. You feel empowered. There will be a strange calmness amidst of all the chaos and then you know that it’s worth fighting for.
Even the fights you have with each other will turn out to be productive. With a productive fight you will be able to understand the other person, finding common ground, you will learn to compromise and respect each other throughout the process.
The person who doesn’t want to change you and accepts you for what you are and if you can do the same thing then yes that person is the one. If he/she prioritizes you above all their needs, if they are ready to do anything for you, if they are not afraid of expressing their feelings for you in public he/she is a keeper.
Everyone experiences love differently, and at different times in different times. Love is beyond all worldly things like age, color, gender etc. Even the meaning of love is subjective and may differ from opinion to opinion, but we can say for certain that everybody who has experienced it knows that it is the best feeling ever. Once you’re in love with someone, it’s hard to remember how you have been living without that person. You were alive before you met this person, but you really didn’t start “living” until you fell in love with this person. So keep that special person safe with you.