8 Tips to Get out of the Friend Zone

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8 Tips to Get out of the Friend Zone

8 Tips to Get out of the Friend Zone

Let’s just be friends is something that no guy wants to hear, especially if he likes the girl romantically. However, this is also one of the most common phrases used by girls all around the world. So, how to get out of the friend zone and be more than just a friend to the girl who is ruining your sleep? Here are a few tips that might help you step out of the dreaded friend zone.

8 Tips to Get out of the Friend Zone

1. Accept the Situation
2. Focus on Yourself
3: Let her know you are Wanted
4: Flirt
5: Be Mysterious
6: Hang out with Her
7: Enjoy your Life
8: Touch Her

1. Accept the Situation 

Accept the fact that she loves you as a friend. Once you accept it you can step back and see things with a new perspective. Know you cannot pursue her to change her mind, and the more you try to tell her how she should be with you, the farther she will draw away from you.

2. Focus on Yourself

This is the right time to start loving yourself, and working towards making you a better version of you. Exercise, eat healthy, drink plenty of water, and read for an overall development. Focus on both the physical and intellectual aspects of your personality. It will also boost up your confidence and give you an attractive aura.

3: Let her know you are Wanted

Now you won’t want to go overboard with it, but letting her know that you are wanted and you are not sitting around feeling sorry for yourself is a great way to grab her attention. Humans being are naturally competitive and all the attention might rekindle some of the latent attraction in her heart.

4: Flirt

Flirt with her whenever you can. Do not go over the top, but drop subtle, fun, quirky hints and make her giggle. Do not come out too strongly, but go slow with your flirting.

5: Be Mysterious

Do not tell her each and everything about yourself. Reveal more about yourself as and when the time for the revelation is appropriate. Maintain a mysterious air around you. Don’t give her all the details about your day or where you go and with whom. Leave her guessing sometimes.

6: Hang out with Her

Do regular, friendly things with her. Go out shopping together, or catch a movie together. Keep it non romantic and friendly, but make sure that both of you enjoy the activities. Give her a glimpse of your impressive, fun loving personality, but refrain from making things awkward by trying to talk to her about serious relationships. Emphasize your sexuality, but in a nice way, don’t go overboard about it or you might scare her away.

7: Enjoy your Life

You might be hopelessly in love with her, and feel like she is the beginning and the end of everything that you are, but it is not so, neither will such attitude do you any good. You don’t want her to see you as clingy and whiny. So work on yourself and go out with your own friends. Enjoy your life and be happy. She will surely want to be a part of such a happy, fun loving person who knows how to give her, her own space when she requires it.

8: Touch Her

Don’t grab her or grope her, but touch her arm casually. or put your arms around her protectively when you are somewhere crowded. These seemingly small moments of physical contact might actually go a long way in making her want you and think of you as more than just a friend.

Once you have tried all these steps, then wait for to take some interest in you, then when you feel the time is right, gather some courage and make the first move.


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